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Overwhelm Isn’t About Time, It’s About Focus

If you have an online business, I can almost guarantee that at some point, or at many points, you’ve felt overwhelmed.

Overwhelm is one of the most common realities of entrepreneurship. And it’s something I’ve experienced many times over the last six years of building my own business.

For me, overwhelm usually shows up when I’m trying to do too many things at once.

There have been seasons where I wanted to do everything, be everywhere, and work toward multiple goals all at the same time. I felt like I needed to be on every platform, growing, launching, creating, and fixing everything at once.

And every single time I’ve done that, I’ve felt stuck, scattered, and exhausted.

What I’ve learned is this.

Overwhelm usually isn’t about a lack of time. It’s about a lack of focus.

Why Time Management Isn’t the Answer

For a long time, I thought the solution to overwhelm was better time management.

• A better planner.
• A better system.
• More productivity hacks.

But none of that worked until I started asking a different question.

What is the one thing that would make the biggest difference right now?

Not five things. Not ten things. Just one.

That shift changed everything for me.

The Fire Framework for Focus

Here’s how I think about it now.

Just like a fire needs three elements to spark and grow, fuel, oxygen, and heat, your business needs three core things to create momentum.

But for most of us, it’s very difficult to focus on all three at the same time.

Fuel: Your Offer

The first element is fuel, and in your business, fuel is your offer.

Everything comes back to your offer.

• What are you trying to sell?

• Who are you trying to help?

• How clearly are you guiding people to that offer? 

Your messaging matters here. Clarity matters here.

Because without an offer, you don’t make money. And if you don’t make money, you don’t have a business, you have a hobby. And hobbies cost money.

That doesn’t mean income is the only thing that matters, but it does matter enough to be honest about it.

Oxygen: Lead Generation

The second element is oxygen, and oxygen is how you generate leads.

Leads are your lifeline. This is how new people come into your world.

• Where are you showing up?

• How are people finding you?

• What are you doing to get in front of the right audience?

Without oxygen, the fire can’t grow and momentum stalls.

Heat: Your Marketing Strategy

The third element is heat, and heat is your marketing strategy.

This is about consistency. 

• What content are you creating?

• Where are you showing up regularly?

• How are you guiding people to their next step?

Heat builds trust. Heat builds momentum.

But this is not something you usually need to overhaul all at once.

Why Trying to Fix Everything Keeps You Stuck

Here’s the mistake I’ve made, and I see entrepreneurs make it all the time.

They try to fix everything at once.

• Their offer.

• Their leads.

• Their marketing.

• Their systems.

• Their tech.

When everything feels important, nothing actually moves forward.

What has worked for me is learning to focus on one main priority at a time.

Not forever. Just for right now.

How to Choose Your One Focus

Ask yourself this question:

What is the biggest need in your business right now?

• Is it clarity on what you’re selling?
• Is it getting new people into your world?
• Or is it showing up more consistently with your message?

Once you identify that focus, break it down.

• What does that focus require?
• What are the steps involved? 

Then break it down again.

• What’s the first step?
• The second step?
• The third step?

You don’t need to see the whole plan. You just need to take the next right step.

Why Support Matters

Doing this in isolation is hard.

Isolation keeps you stuck and overwhelmed longer than almost anything else. Because until a decision is made, nothing moves forward.

That’s why having the right mentors, community, and support matters so much.

Not because you’re incapable. But because having someone help you see clearly, narrow your focus, and make decisions faster changes everything.

• Some people need ongoing community and mentorship.
• Some need structured guidance to build and launch an offer.
• Some just need a focused conversation to get unstuck and move forward.

There’s no one right way to be supported, but trying to do everything alone is one of the fastest ways to stay overwhelmed.

You need clarity, direction, and support that fits where you are right now.

Your Takeaway

If you’re feeling overwhelmed today, remember this.

Overwhelm doesn’t mean you’re failing. It usually means you care. 

Clarity doesn’t come from doing more. It comes from choosing what matters most right now and giving it your full attention.

That’s how momentum starts. And that’s how purpose turns into impact.

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If you’re feeling overwhelmed, unsure what to focus on, or stuck trying to do everything at once, you’re invited to submit your question for the podcast.

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